Sometimes you need to talk about your weaknesses

April 28, 2022

Of course, not directly and in the first words. You just don’t need to hide your weaknesses with all diligence - there is no reason to create the image of an “ideal guy”. To seem attractive, you need to be perfect and human at the same time. The girl (and all of us) has a stereotype that when a person wants to prove himself from the best side, he shows only pluses. We are used to it, it does not surprise us. Therefore, when we see how a person is not shy about talking about some of his minor shortcomings, this arouses interest. Yes, it is better to keep the global cons to yourself - you are not with a psychotherapist. What is catchy about this trick is that a person does not depend on someone else's approval. This independence is a fundamental quality.