HOW AND FOR WHAT TO PRAISE HIM?

When I hear: "Why praise him, kiss him in the ass, why should I? They don't thank me." I understand that there is no team in this pair and love has hung somewhere in question. Otherwise, why is it so hard for a loving woman to say “Thank you” to her own man? There is competition for scarce resources of warmth, kindness, and good relationships. As if the word “thank you” is the same for everyone, and if you give it to him, then nothing will remain for you. When the family turns into rivalry and revenge and stubbornness begin, everything ends! It's up to us to save her. After all, a woman is an inexhaustible source of kindness, warmth and affection.