Rules for the Perfect Foreplay

2. Agree on the ground. Let's recall the notorious story of '50 Shades of Grey' and the extensive contract the main character handed to his beloved before their first night together. Of course, we are not urging you to prepare so meticulously for the act of love, but it is still worth discussing some fundamental points. For example, it would be good to share with your partner the things you consider unacceptable in bed (or during foreplay). Also, you can point out to the man the location of your erogenous zones (so he doesn't have to search long) and inquire about his 'secrets'. Undoubtedly, it is impossible to foresee everything, so you can suggest to the guy a so-called safe word that you will use if the foreplay goes in the wrong direction (in any sense).