Relationships should not be a burden

Relationships should not be a burden. They should not stress you out and deplete your inner strength. Compromises, concessions, mutual help. Yes, all that is clear. But! All this should happen easily and without that stupid feeling as if your life force is being drained. With a person, it's either easy or not. Either good or bad. And if you see that it's bad and these relationships are suffocating you, leave before it's too late. Before there is that strong attachment that ties you down like a hundred-pound weight.