Don't let others decide for you

There's no need to seek excuses for people — they act as they deem necessary. Don't expect others to make the first move or to send the last messages... Either way, it's foolish to put your decisions into the hands of others. Don't beg a person for their attention, love, or pity... Don't trample your self-esteem on the ambitions of those who are completely indifferent to your feelings. Learn to listen to yourself: if you want to call, write, come, leave... Your life is a puzzle of your decisions, and no one else can understand what you want better than yourself.