You can even argue with a girl!

Often guys are afraid of a possible, even minimal, confrontation with a girl. After all, he wants to “achieve”, “deserve” her to be in the same bed with her. This option will not work - you probably saw this once you were on this channel) An attempt to "cheer up" a girl is a very correct action. Our task is to evoke emotions and emotionally bind it to ourselves. Better such an ardent conversation on opposite sides of the barricades than your dull nodding to all arguments. But there is no need to arrange a debate - there is no need to go to extremes. Find a balance in communication in which you are BOTH individuals. And not you “achieving” and she “evaluating” - this model DOES NOT WORK.