The Main Thing to Know About Sex: It Happens in the Mind!

1. Sex is not a place for manipulation. Sex is, first and foremost, a biological need of a healthy person. But many turn this need into a kind of business - I give to you, you give to me, or a punishment ('Upset? Sleep on the couch for a week!'). 2. Love for oneself and the ability to immerse in the moment. Women usually focus on beauty, men on technique. Or partners think about work or dirty dishes during sex, instead of recognizing they are having sex on a washing machine for the first time in their life. 3. Presence of desire. Sex is not an army; you do not have to engage in it precisely at 8 PM on Sundays. Many people have sex not in the way they want or even at times when they do not want it. For some, it's 'performing marital duty,' others think about satisfying the partner, forgetting about themselves.