The Secret of a Happy Relationship

You don't pull him towards you, manipulate him, or build walls because you understand that he will be with you as long as he wants to, just as you do. You give him a gift - the freedom to choose, where he decides for himself if he wants to be with you or not. Similarly, you also receive this mutual gift. You are not tormented by jealousy, resentment, or the need for attention, as it was before... In those relationships that have faded into the past, which were lessons for you, and which you have gone through with your pain and experiences... That taught you not to get attached to partners, to fulfill yourself independently and be yourself, not to bend under a man, breaking yourself in the process...