Nothing is Accidental

Nothing is accidental, so learn your lessons. First, accept the situation as it is. For instance, I myself have attracted this situation into my life through my actions, words, thoughts. By doing so, you take responsibility for your actions and open the door to wisdom. This is the only path to enlightenment. If you decide to shift the responsibility onto someone else, you are on the path leading to spiritual degradation. There is no growth there.