Nothing is accidental, so learn from it

Secondly – (mental work) discover and realize the mistake that caused the unpleasant situation. Understanding may not come immediately, but reflection will bear fruit, it will be like a revelation. Remember, nothing is accidental, so shut your Ego up on time, which will attempt to stop the analysis. It's not superfluous here to recall what you said to your opponent in the unpleasant situation. Try on the accusations yourself – isn't it your coat? If something about a person irritates you, it means it exists in you. Knock, and it will open...