The 'Once a Week' Rule

The method is simple: when you start dating, during the first month do it no more than once a week. Why? If we spend too much time with someone, a false sense of closeness and unity may emerge, even though we don't really know the person. It's better not to rush into sex. The more frequent the dates, the sooner it will lead to sex. We are not prudes and don't oppose it at all. But remember, sex is intoxicating: during it, oxytocin is released, known as the hormone of love, tenderness, and attachment. This clouds judgment, and we might get closer to someone before actually knowing them.