How to tell a man there's no orgasm?

2. Formulate the phrases precisely. No fluff, introductory words, or figurative expressions – only precise formulations! Hints and evasion – that's what we women can and understand. Men, on the other hand, need clarity and specificity. 3. Give hints. Having discussed the most important thing – the absence of orgasm, it is worth discussing what you will do next. Explain to your partner that there are certain positions, types of sex, and types of stimulation that you like the most. These are your hints. 4. Choose the right partner. Well, this advice is elementary, it seems to us, but we think you already understood everything.