Not yours

If a bit is missing, it may be missing for a lifetime. Do you want something to be missing? If yes, good, it's your choice, that's fine, why not. Then there’s no need to try to do something to make it enough. Just accept it and live with 'not enough'. You chose it yourself. We, women, are masters at deceiving ourselves. First, we invent a man, then we transfer all our warm feelings and ideas of how it should be onto him, and then we are surprised that he is not like that at all. Meanwhile, it was clear from the beginning that he was different. We just decided to deceive ourselves and believe that he is not like that now, but over time he will change, we will give him a chance, and everything will be fine. And then we give a second, third chance, and in general, we will keep giving chances until he changes, because we believed that he would become different, that he just needs a little more time.