Be smarter

Be smarter. Learn to let go in time, even of those you love. This is the great law of non-attachment. When you hold on to someone out of fear of losing your love, you lose more. Take a deep breath and let everyone be responsible for their own life. Everyone belongs only to themselves. Never try to change another person. Accept them as they are, we are all different, but that’s the beauty. People become close not through similarity, fake compromises, or even shared past. True closeness is born from genuine enjoyment of differences. When you don't try to change, convince, or desperately stuff someone with advice. When you just interact with a person - like reading a book - agree on some things, disagree on others, but it's still so interesting, elegant, and light that you can't stop. Unfortunately, to understand such elementary things, you often have to pay a high price - losing dear people. Therefore, be wiser.