Hidden Violence in Relationships

3. You strive to avoid any conflicts. Instead of expressing everything that's been bothering you, you remain silent to keep the peace. You avoid conflicts in all areas of life, not just at home but also at work. You might do this out of habit or because you are too tired and don't find the strength to express your point of view freely after so many conflicts at home. You live as if you are shrinking. Defending your interests is now an insurmountable task for you; it is much easier to adapt than to worry that your disobedience will result in tension in the relationship.