Partner neither holds on nor lets go – what to do?

September 8, 2024

Such behavior can cause feelings of uncertainty, anxiety, and disappointment. It is important to understand the reasons for this behavior: 1. Understand the reasons for your partner's behavior. Have an open conversation about their feelings and motivations. Ask why they cannot make a final decision and what is bothering them. 2. Assess your own feelings and needs. Conduct a self-analysis and honestly answer the questions: 'What do I want from this relationship?' and 'Am I happy under these conditions?' 3. Set boundaries and priorities. Tell your partner: 'I need to understand where our relationship is going. I am not ready to remain in a state of uncertainty.' 4. Give yourself time and space. Say that you need time to understand your feelings. 5. Consider all possible scenarios. Write down possible scenarios and your actions in each of them. This will help you be prepared for any outcome.