VIVA LA RESISTANCE
[Psychology]
September 5, 2024
There are situations when someone shows interest in us, but we do not feel the same in return. It is important to decline in a way that preserves the dignity and feelings of both parties. Honesty is the best way to turn someone down. Say something like, 'I respect your feelings, but unfortunately, I do not feel the same. I think it is better if we remain friends.' Choose an appropriate time and place. This shows that you respect the other person's feelings. Show respect and empathy. Express appreciation for their interest and say that you value them as a person. Avoid false hopes. Be clear in your words and avoid phrases like 'Maybe sometime in the future' or 'Let's see what happens next.' Be prepared for different reactions. If the person reacts emotionally, give them time to calm down. Do not argue or justify yourself.