VIVA LA RESISTANCE
[Psychology]
July 19, 2024
Sometimes, in an attempt to improve the situation, we might choose incorrect methods that only exacerbate the problems. 1. Ignoring problems. Closing your eyes to problems and hoping they resolve on their own is a sure way to worsen a relationship. 2. Manipulation and ultimatums. These methods create tension and distrust instead of fostering open and honest dialogue. 3. Excessive criticism and blame. Constructive criticism should aim at resolving the issue, not blaming the partner for their shortcomings. 4. Ignoring your own needs. Sacrificing your needs for the partner may seem noble, but in the long run, it leads to accumulated negativity and dissatisfaction. 5. Comparing with other couples. Every relationship is unique, and it is important to focus on your own characteristics and values rather than striving for someone else's ideals. Avoid these bad methods and focus on healthy and constructive approaches to strengthen your relationship.