Attention - what is it?

Flowers, compliments, pleasant surprises, messages, calls, shared leisure. Is this all attention? Yes! Does all this confirm your importance to your partner? Not in the slightest. There is one sign that precisely indicates whether you are important to the person (partner, friend, relative). They won't leave you. They will come to help right away. They will travel from afar, not spare time, money on a ticket, there won't be a single excuse. Everything else is tinsel, gilding. The shine of your relationship will fade as soon as you find yourself in such a situation. The person will show their true attitude towards you, how deeply they cherish and breathe you. And this does not mean at all that they are bad or evil. They are simply not yours. So don't make someone who gives you only gilding dear to you. It's not enough.