Aggression on Soft Paws

If someone openly attacks us - we have the right to defend ourselves. And those around us see the attack, they see very clearly who attacked first: threatened, insulted, hit… There is another type of aggression. Perfectly unpunished and incomprehensible to others, unnoticed. Other people wonder why we are not pleased with such a nice person? Why don't we want to communicate with him, react sharply or cry after the conversation? After all, he hasn't done anything bad to us, on the contrary, he brings us coffee in bed and keeps our workplace tidy!