Aggression on Soft Paws

In a soft aggression conversation, the gentle aggressor asks questions that cause pain. Specifically interested in what torments us. Is your husband still drinking?, Why have you improved so much?, When will you have a baby? And gives advice we didn't ask for. And gently criticizes our clothes, our loved ones, our successes. And tries to get as close as possible, to reach us, even hug, not realizing that we are moving away. Familiarity is also a form of enveloping aggression.