Why do we choose those we cannot be with?

Sometimes we fall in love not with a person, but with their image. We project qualities onto our partner that they do not actually possess. Eventually, the image shatters and disappointment sets in. If you suffer from low self-esteem, the thought lingers in your mind – I am not worthy of a mature, tender, reliable partner by my side. As a result, we choose a partner who does not meet our expectations. Leaning towards unhealthy attachments. If you did not receive love in childhood, then in adulthood, you become attached to anyone who shows even a little bit of attention towards you. And of course, there is no guarantee that this person is good and reliable.