The point is to be able to let go.

When you know how and can not take revenge in response, not humiliate yourself and not live with the negative of the past. Yes, it is very important to be able to let go of other people and situations related to them. It is also very important to be able to forgive. Myself! For the fact that I once got stuck, stumbled, made a mistake, lost my head, trusted where it was impossible. Let it happen. Forgive yourself at last and let go of everything that was. This is the only way you can find your happiness! Believe me, all the events in your life are not accidental. Sometimes only with time you understand the whole essence of this or that situation. And experience, even negative, is your experience and you needed it at this stage of life in order to become stronger, wiser, more tolerant.