Between love and neurosis. Continuation.

In most relationships there are elements of a neurotic need for love, a matter of quantity. There are doses that you can live with and build relationships with. And there are doses with which it is difficult to build relationships, because mutual destruction of each other occurs. But if a person has been accustomed for many years to consider self-destruction in a relationship as love, then of course it is difficult to give up the idea of great love. Moreover, we often hear that it is wonderful to love, that only for the sake of love is life worth living. But in reality, few people take it upon themselves to give a definition of love. And if it gives a definition, then no one gives a strategy for how to define it and save it. Therefore, codependent or neurotic relationships are usually called love and endure them, because this is supposedly a great feeling. Moreover, the worse a person suffers in a relationship, the more elevated love is considered!