Between love and neurosis. Continuation.

April 10, 2023

To distinguish love from addiction, I always rely on this factor: if you are in an unhealthy relationship, you have the feeling that you are spending a lot, but getting little in return. Such relationships are chronically draining. If we are talking about healthy relationships, then they can have exhausting moments, conflicts, situations. But as a result, partners have the feeling that they receive more than they spend on maintaining and developing relationships. Simply put, if in a relationship you feel exhausted, then you have a neurosis. If filled, then you have love.