About "getting out of the comfort zone". Continuation.

My eyes begin to twitch anxiously from such words. I'll explain now. To get out of your comfort zone, you must first be in it. What is a “comfort zone”? This is a place where it is warm, cozy, free, tasty, joyful and safe. Where you are loved and respected. Where you are taken care of (and you are also taken care of, not without that, but not unilaterally). Many of us simply do not have such a zone. Well, there is no zone where they take care of us. In the best case, there is a zone to lie down or break through. It's better than nothing, but not really. It's like alcohol from frost - in principle, it helps, but not for long, and worse than a down jacket.