Guilt Trip - What to Do About It?

Parents reproach their children for not calling them every single evening. Children reproach their parents for not giving them something. Mom through the feeling of guilt manipulates her son and makes him "her own man" to serve her needs. Because she "spent her whole youth to raise him". Wife is constantly manipulating her husband, who once cheated on her but stayed in the family... If you are really guilty to someone, the most HEALTHY attitude is to ask for forgiveness and find out what you can do to make things right. BUT! That doesn't mean you have to pay for one transgression, mistake, or favor for the rest of your life.