If a person spat in your soul, do not try to find an excuse for him.

Even if he is very dear to you and dearly loved by you. This is a utopia. Of course, you can say that situations are different, that everything happens in life, that pride is your enemy. But then try to project the situation onto yourself: are you able to hurt your loved one? No?! Draw conclusions: you are not so dear to this person, because loved ones are protected, not injured. So, there is a huge probability that he will do this to you more than once if this very “everything” comes up again. And then the choice is yours: endure once and forget or endure over and over again and eventually die!