One day you stop fussing and proving something to someone.

You look with a smile at the world around you with all its madness, you are not in a hurry to please people, you are not in a hurry to give advice and judge or save someone, you stop answering calls from people who have not admired and are not interested in for a long time, you look more at the sky than at who is busy with what and how he lives, remembers what inspires regardless of the circumstances, does not apologize, does not explain, does not argue, does not waste time on uninteresting and temporary things, and you discover incredible calmness and many things that you did not notice before in pursuit in order to fit into someone's ideas or meet someone's expectations.