How to rewrite a destructive script

There is no universal answer to the question of how to rewrite the script, since all people are different and the age of each according to the passport can be very different from the psychosexual one. For example, when a man suddenly begins to experience platonic love at the age of 40, this causes discord in the family. This happens because at one time he did not go through this stage for one reason or another, and at the moment he is living the evolution of understanding and feeling love within himself. The solution to any problem begins with its awareness. An analysis of one's own and parental experience helps to discover and formulate it. Only by “unpacking” the traumas that manipulate a person, you can open the source of unconditional love for yourself and your life. And when a person is satisfied with himself, his work and the world around him, he finds people close in spirit and views with whom he can build harmonious and mature relationships.