The first lesson of love is that one should not ask for love, but simply give it.

Become a giver. And people do just the opposite. Even when they share love, they always expect no less love in return. It looks like a deal. They don't give love, they don't do it unconditionally. They love on condition. Out of the corner of their eye, they watch to see if the same amount of love is returning to them. Very unhappy people... they don't know the true nature of love. You just have to pour it out and it will come back.