Love is either there or it isn't.

I have long understood - to run after someone, to persuade: "Come on, take my love. Look how pure and sincere it is! Everything is for you, everything is at your feet" makes no sense. At best, you will be ignored or used in bed. At worst - gutted like a roach. They use all your financial, mental, physical resources, wipe their feet and leave. You can take a person with exhaustion and perseverance, but he will not love you from this. She will regret it if she only thinks: "This is easier to give than to explain why not," but after a while she will fall in love with another and leave anyway. It's like putting plantain on a gunshot wound. Nothing will help, because self-deception. Sometimes you just need to stop. Realize that begging for love is a road to nowhere. You can't beg for love, you can't earn it. Love is either there or it isn't.