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5. To love is not to control. One of the first signs of potential domestic abuse is your partner's desire to control your every move: who you call, where you go, who you look at, what you do. The lover does not. He doesn't check your phone, he doesn't look at the speedometer, wondering where you've been. He doesn't tell you what you should think or wear or say. He doesn't tell you how you should feel. 6. To love is to respect. A lover does not label you or humiliate you in front of others. He does not destroy you and does not shame you in public. The lover respects your boundaries, respects your time, respects your ideas, respects your emotions, respects you.