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3. To love is not to fight. The lover does not back up his arguments with personal attacks. He doesn't hit in the gut. Does not step on your throat and does not lead you to death. He is looking for a solution and is ready to compromise. He does not seek victory at any cost. 4. To love is not to be selfish. The lover does not think that the world revolves around him. He takes and gives, not just takes, takes and takes. He may not always recognize, but at least he hears that you are tired, sick, upset or dissatisfied. A lover is able to empathize and sympathize. He washes to reach out and lend a shoulder. It's comfortable with him. The lover does not do whatever he wants, regardless of others. He respects your time and energy. He knows how to share.