Love it...

1. Loving is not stopping you from growing. A lover won't offer you a piece of cake if you're on a diet. He won't add sugar to your tea if you have high blood sugar. And he won’t offer you a drink if you decide to live sober. Just as he will not require you to comply with his picture of the world: do not drink if he decided not to drink, and live the way he wants. 2. To love is not to play mind games. The lover does not "blame" you or manipulate you. He doesn't say, "It didn't happen," if you clearly saw that, yes, it did. He doesn't call you crazy if you refuse to go along with his lies.