How to deal with those who ruin your life.

7. Remember yourself. If you have to live or work side by side with such a person, you must develop the skills of detachment. Be sure to find time to be alone with yourself, your thoughts, plans, feelings. Don't focus on the other person's life. Don't make a commitment to change anyone. A person will not change until he wants it for himself. 8. Think about why toxic people are around you. Perhaps they are a reflection of some of your internal problems. You solve their problems instead of getting on with your life. Whether you do something or not, time goes by anyway. So spend it on building your unique path!