How to deal with those who ruin your life.

2. Don't be comfortable. Patiently enduring all the whims of a toxic person is the path to a disordered psyche. Learn to say no, stop violating your boundaries, calmly defend your interests. It’s enough to pretend to be happy when a wave of indignation overwhelms you. If the energy vampire sees that you know how to fight back, he may think about his behavior. It is unlikely that it will change overnight, but the seed of change will be sown. 3. Be direct. Hints will not help here, you will have to say directly about what does not suit you. Be prepared that the person will take your reaction painfully. It is often very difficult for such people to accept any criticism addressed to them.