How to change your character for the better?

The first thing you need to do is take a piece of paper, a pen and make a list: first, list the traits that you think are preventing you from living, and then write down the ones that you would like to acquire. To more accurately determine what is negative about you, ask your loved ones. Let them tell you what annoys them about you. So you can look at yourself from the outside. Otherwise, we often do not see any shortcomings behind ourselves, and in this case we can identify a couple more character traits in ourselves that we can correct at the same time.