Returning to the topic of manipulation.

Narcissists like to quarrel on purpose, consciously, at the right moment. This is an element of manipulation. ▫️For example, quarrels happen just before gifting presents. Now, obviously, the person doesn’t have to gift you anything, and, as always, you are to blame. ▫️The quarrel is arranged in order not to fulfill a promise. They promised you something, but they weren't going to fulfill it. (I wanted to buy it for you, but because of your behavior and tantrums, I changed my mind.) ▫️The narcissist creates a situation so that the victim does not leave to meet with friends. Because, ideally, the victim should be isolated. After all, your whole life ‘should’ revolve around the narcissist! A few fights and now the victim no longer wishes to go to hang out with friends. It's easier for her or him not to meet their friends than to relive this nightmare again. Did you happen to notice this?