Healthy relationships are freedom

• Freedom from shaking: where, with whom. Instead of control - trust, which grows out of a wonderful combination of "said and done." • Freedom from shame: I'm somehow different, not correct enough, smart, beautiful, good, and so on. Both know who they have chosen and accept each other for who they are. • Freedom from fear: to turn wrong, look wrong, be punished. In a healthy relationship, you can relax (not to be confused with permissiveness) and be a living person.