Simultaneous orgasm - should I strive for it?

Synchronized orgasm, of course, is very pleasant. But to make them the goal of making love is a mistake. They are more likely if the partners have been in a relationship for a long time and they have had biorhythm synchronization. It should also be taken into account that a woman usually needs about 4 times more time to achieve orgastic discharge than a man. Moreover, the male brain is physiologically more prepared to receive an orgasm: their sexual intercourse ends with an orgasm in 95% of cases, for the stronger sex, these figures are significantly lower. And yet, in intimacy, the most important thing is not duration or synchronicity at all. A loving couple should rather strive for mutual psycho-emotional and physiological satisfaction. What do you think?