Happiness is not there somewhere, happiness is within us.

If inside you have: Fear, life will scare you. If there is aggression inside, life will "attack" you. If you have a desire to fight inside, you will get rivals. If you feel guilty inside, life will find a way to “punish” you. If you have resentment inside, life will give you reasons to be offended even more. If you have joy inside, life will give even more reasons for joy. If you have gratitude inside, life will give you even more reasons to be grateful for what you have.