What do they fall in love with?

They don't fall in love with our traits, strengths and weaknesses. Fall in love with the state that partners experience next to you. And it's not about quality. If I fall in love with the strong and independent - it's my own inner vulnerability, I need protection. If I fall in love with household ones, my life probably lacks the order that I would like. And I also fall in love with the free, if I myself am squeezed into the vise of family rules. And men do the same. If he is pleased to feel needed, he will fall in love with a woman-problem: either she broke the car, then she left the house without keys. If you want to hang out in childhood, he will choose the one with whom he can feel like a boy. There is a search for the state in which a person is as comfortable as possible, and, perhaps, he will experience this state with you. What do people feel around you? Think about it.