How to understand that you are unnecessarily controlling a man?

• you constantly criticize him • do not let go to friends without scandals • jealous from scratch • you require reports: where you were, what you did, where you spent your personal money, etc. • often use blackmail and threats The chosen one will naturally oppose guardianship and supervision in every possible way. So, problems in relationships, constant quarrels, misunderstandings are inevitable. And what happens is what you fear the most - betrayal, irresponsible actions on his part, parting as a sad outcome. That's why you can't control a man! Any control over a man suffocates him, devalues ​​him as a person and all the good that he does for you.