How can you change a man?

Change yourself! Realizing that the relationship with your husband has deteriorated, honestly ask yourself: do you want to build a future life with this person? If yes, then be ready to carry out serious and difficult work on yourself (but not on your husband!) in order to save your family. ▫️Try to look at a loved one objectively, without a “straw in the eye”. Perhaps many of the shortcomings that you attributed to him are not so significant. ▫️ Find joint activities and ways to spend time that could bring pleasure, joy and good mood to both of you. ▫️Try to look at the world around you through the eyes of your husband, take his position, feel his anxiety and worries, support his desires without imposing your own.