Growth is where the focus is!

So just focus on opportunities, positive attitudes, self improvement, income, and nice people — GROW and EXPAND. On the other hand, if you focus on problems, expenses, negativity, surround yourself with toxic people, then don't expect changes or anything good, since all THIS will also grow and expand. When negative thoughts come, tell yourself to "STOP". In case you are told unpleasant things about another person, stop the person you are talking to (let's not talk about it) or change the subject. In this way you will benefit not only yourself, but also him or her...