How to conflict.

In order for the conflict to lead to the resolution of situations or problems, and not to parting, we learn how to conflict correctly: 1. Leave the battlefield. If you feel like you're going to explode with emotion, take a time out and set up negotiations with your spouse, for example, after dinner, when the children are put to bed. 2. Remember: you are allies, the problem is the enemy. 3. Discuss with your husband the subject of the conflict. Take turns telling each other how you see the problem. 4. Then share your feelings and thoughts with each other. Do not go over to the personalities “and you”, “and I”. We discuss only the problem and your attitude towards it. 5. Take turns telling each other how you see the ideal solution to the problem. 6. Tell each other what is most important to you in solving the problem, and what is secondary.