A favorite tactic of the narcissist.

A favorite tactic of a narcissist is to piss off the interlocutor, and then reproach him for being too hot. First, the harsh emotional reaction contrasts favorably with the cold courtesy of the narcissist himself. Secondly, the narcissist gets the opportunity to interpret this reaction in their favor: “Aha! You get angry. So there is no smoke without fire.” When dealing with narcissists, avoid unnecessary emotional attacks on your part. This will allow you to limit the narcissist's influence over you. .