The prelude is very important.

An experienced man, of course, knows what a woman likes in foreplay. But no one can read minds. Therefore, if it seems to you that his kisses are intrusive and the touches are rude, do not hesitate to tell him about it. For example, when you realize that your partner is in too much of a hurry, gently stop him. Tease your lover: then move closer, then move away.