Forget being smart.

Being interesting and being smart about lofty topics are completely different things. Do not rush from the first meeting with a man to prove to him theories of the creation of the world. The woman is not about that at all. So, a man will feel boasting and even vulgarity. This does not mean that you need to pretend to be a fool and blink your eyes all evening. Be natural, do not try to show off to everyone at once. Give him the opportunity to teach you something himself. Then he will experience real pleasure.